This
word, invented by Alfred Adler, 1 is the only one available which
describes well the "flavor" of the feelings for mankind
expressed by self actualizing subjects. They have for human beings
in general a deep feeling of identification, sympathy, and affection,
in spite of the occasional anger, impatience, or disgust described
below. Because of this they have a genuine desire to help the
human race. It is as if they are all members of a single family.
One's feelings toward his brothers would be on the whole affectionate,
even if these brothers were foolish, weak, or even if they were
sometimes nasty. They would still be more easily forgiven than
strangers.
If one's view is not general enough and if it is not spread over
X a long enough period of time, then one may not see this feeling
of identification with mankind. The self-actualizing person is,
after all, very different from other people in thought, impulse,
behavior, emotion. When it comes down to it, in certain basic
ways he is like an alien in a strange land. Very few really understand
him however much they may like him. He is often saddened, exasperated,
and even enraged by the shortcomings of the average person, and,
while they are to him ordinarily no more than a nuisance, they
sometimes become bitter tragedy. However far apart he is from
them at times, he nevertheless feels a basic underlying kinship
with these creatures whom he must regard with, if not condescension,
at least the knowledge that he can do many things better than
they can, that he can see things that they cannot see, that the
truth which is so clear to him is for most people veiled and hidden.
This is what Adler called the "older-brotherly" attitude.